Love or Family?

In the play Romeo and Juliet Juliet has a conflict within herself. After finding out that Romeo has killed Tybalt she can't figure out whether or not to feel happy that Romeo is still alive, since if he wasn't would have. But at the same time she knows that Tybalt is family and Romeo is an enemy to the family. She asks herself, "Shall I speak ill of him that is my husband? Ah, poor my lord, what tongue shall smooth thy name when I, thy three-hours wife, hath mangled it? But wherefore, villain, didst thou kill my cousin? That villain cousin would have killed my husband." (3.2.106-111) This conflict is intra personal. When love is blind it can cause violence. Blind love that doesn't think ahead, is impulsive, and is selfish, has negative consequences.
Many people fall in love with people their families and/or friends don't approve of. And how do they cope with this? Most of them elope, which just gets them into bigger trouble. When people deal with forbidden love they only think about themselves and forget everything else. Their love is now their top priority.

Romeo and Juliet was here

I think the movie Titanic is an example of media similar to the story of Romeo and Juliet. Both stories are about forbidden love and have a sad ending. Juliet has to marry Paris, someone she doesn't care about, as is Rose with Cal. Rose and Juliet are both well behaved and controlled by their mothers. However on the inside they don't want to be that way. Juliet first told Romeo that she doesn't like how their relationship is moving so fast, but then quickly changes her mind afterwards. Rose looked well behaved on the outside but on the inside was bored of her life and even attempted suicide. And of course, the couples in both stories experience love at first sight. The first time they see each other they love each other because they think that the other person is so attractive.

Connections between me and my book

I don't think I can relate much to anyone in the book Romeo and Juliet, but I think I am a little bit like Benvolio, who likes to give advice to friends and tries to make them feel better. Benvolio would do anything to help Romeo with his problems, Even taking him to a party where only Capulets are allowed, ignoring the feud between the families. After reading scene 4 (I hope that counts as part of the first few scenes) I realized that Romeo's intrusion to the party might have escalated the feud between the Capulets and the Montagues.
The language of Shakespeare is actually easy to understand with the help of the footnotes, which are definitely a HUGE help. However, there are lots of jokes and allusions I don't really understand. This is where the reading in class helps. I guess since I'm kind of getting used to Shakespeare's language when I'm reading on my own its easier now. I'm so glad we aren't assigned huge portions of the book to read at home every night like when we were reading Great Expectations. (or maybe it was because that book wasn't very exciting) The first scene took my forever to get through because I had to constantly refer to the footnotes. I still don't think that reading in class helps that much though.

wrapping up GE :D

I think that Charles Dickens really wanted his readers to remember that when you go after something you don't really need you won't become happy or content. Pip went to London with lots of money thinking that would make him happy. You think it will make you feel better about yourself but it only keeps you from realizing what real happiness is. Nowadays this message is still very true. For example, when you get something that everybody else has, what's considered cool, you might be happy for a moment. But after a little while you start to realize that it isn't as great as you thought it was. A great example that supports this message is the silly band. Silly bandz were a huge fad with elementary schoolers for an extremely short period of time. People liked to trade them and cover their wrists, fingers, and necks with them. Then the fad of these interestingly shaped rubber bands started fading away. I can imagine the regret people who spent huge amounts of money on the fad felt then. When you do or take something just to fit into other people's standards you'll never be content. But when you stay content with your circumstances and where you are that's what can make you happier.

Thoughts on Reading

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I think the story of Great Expectations was pretty good in some parts and boring in others. There were some pretty interesting parts near the end. At first I felt sad for Pip when he was little. But then when he got his expectations and was rude to Biddy I hated him. What kind of confused me was Mrs. Joe's role in the book. She's a big part of Pip's life, being her guardian, and then she dies. Also, I don't remember solving any of the mysteries. I normally like to stay oblivious and enjoy being surprised. So I don't like to use Sparknotes often.

When I was reading Great Expectations out of class normally it was right before bed. I don't know if this habit had any effect on my comprehension of the novel, but I just wanted to get to bed so I skimmed over the really boring parts a few times. I always followed the reading schedule because once when I hadn't it took me forever to make up an extra night of reading. It was super hard to pay attention.

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This is a picture of someone who has been overtaken by regret and shame. Pip really regrets ever meeting Miss Havisham and Estella. Because of them, Pip's life is ruined, like the poor guy's skin over here. Instead of being happy and content with what he has he is discontent and ashamed, constantly afraid that Estella will find out how poor he is. This shame is part of the "chain" that leads to him to have his heart broken by Estella later in London. If Pip hadn't known Estella he probably would have been happy in London.

Fishtails!...Blacksmithing!

A story I think is similar to Great Expectations, by Charles Dickens is the original story of The Little Mermaid, by Hans Christian Anderson. In both books the main character longs for something they've always wanted. For Pip, its to become a gentleman, and for the mermaid (Sirenetta! Not Ariel!) its becoming a human. Both Pip and Sirenetta/Ariel want those things because of love. When the time finally comes that Pip and Sirenetta get what they want it isn't as great as they thought it would be. London reveals itself as dirty, ugly, and a dissapointment. The Prince is in love with somebody else and Sirenetta's feet hurt a lot when she walks (a curse). A common theme between these two stories is to be content with what you already have. Pip and Sirenetta were both exposed to something that changed their lives. Pip met Miss Havisham and Estella. Sirenetta finds and saves the prince. Instead of acting impulsively, they could have stayed put and refused to go any further.

When Pip first met Miss Havisham the first link of a chain started to form. Sirenetta's started when she fell in love with the prince and saved him from dieing.

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P.S. Read the REAL Little Mermaid story here! (apparently Anderson modified the ending later to make it less gruesome so this story ends happily kind of)

http://www.yankeeweb.com/library/storytime/grimmbros/grimmbros_32.html

This is off topic, but...

(I didn't write this summary!)

In the original sleeping beauty, the lovely princess is put to sleep when she pricks her finger on a spindle. She sleeps for one hundred years when a prince finally arrives, kisses her, and awakens her. They fall in love, marry, and (surprise surprise) live happily ever after. But alas, the original tale is not so sweet (in fact, you have to read this to believe it.) In the original, the young woman is put to sleep because of a prophesy, rather than a curse. And it isn’t the kiss of a prince which wakes her up: the king (her father) seeing her asleep, and rather fancying having a bit, rapes her. After nine months she gives birth to two children (while she is still asleep). One of the children sucks her finger which removes the piece of flax which was keeping her asleep. She wakes up to find herself raped and the mother of two kids.